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TOPIC: STUDY ANALYSIS ON MARITAL VIOLENCE; WOMEN AWARENESS ON THEIR RIGHTS OF FASAKH AND TA’LIQ DIVORCE UNDER ISLAMIC FAMILY LAW IN MALAYSIA.
1) Statement of the problem
a) Marital violence or also known as domestic violence is widespread. It is life threatening or, at least, physically dangerous for a number of women. Due to several factor, the women may find themselves trapped in abusive relationships.
b) In the process enlightening Muslim wives of their right normally pay great emphasis on the issues of maintenance and custody. However, when regards to domestic violence, those women are not exposed to their rights in the marriage especially those women live in the rural area; when we said that women live in the rural area, we should understand that these type of women do not exposed to the actual knowledge of Islamic family law; as compared to women who live in the urban area.
c) This research will tell us how far women who live in the rural area understand the true nature of Islamic family Law implemented in Malaysia to protect their rights as battered wives when it comes to the issue of marital violence.
d) Most of the women in Malaysia do heard the word ta’liq and fasakh divorce but they do not understand the real meaning of it and how far these types of dissolution of marriage will save them from being the victims of domestic violence.
2) Research objectives
a) To compare the understanding of wives who live in the rural area and wives who live in the urban area about their rights in marriage of their right in ta’liq and fasakh divorce when it comes to the issue of marital violence.
b) To analyze women awareness from being the victims of marital violence.
c) To understand the types and nature of marital violence itself.
3) Definition of the terms
a) Marital violence is defined as violence, especially happened to wife who is repeatedly subjected to any forceful physical or psychological behavior by the husband in order to coerce her to do something he wants her to do without any concern for her rights.
b) Fasakh here means the power to annul from marital contract by the wife in Islamic point of view. This is different from talaq since the power of talaq is given solely to the husband. A woman has power to apply for divorce which is known as fasakh in certain conditions that are clear that her husband neglects his responsibility or habitually assaults her or makes her life miserable by cruelty.
c) Ta’liq divorce means suspended or attached. In envisages the occurring of something with conditions. In the context of divorce, a talaq will be in effect if one of the conditions in an agreement is not fulfilled or is breached. As conditions are pre-requisites, there has to be an agreement. This agreement is reached or sealed at the solemnization of the marriage. The condition are listed in a specified form and agreed by both parties.
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kan??.haha..sangat pulun update kat sini.. sbb?. bia semua org tahu saya sedang buat reseach bkenaan ini.. motif??. sebab saya sayang kaum saya.. jgn jd hamba kepada mereka yg suka mendera dan memaksa.. bukan kita mangsa mereka.. cari mangsa lain.. another motif; saja nk show off sbb hantar outline ni td for recheck, n tade kesalahan pape pon ye..haha.. sangat bangga.. owh, jgn riak lagi. we'll wait for presentation of this topic plak pasni ye..lalalala~
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sesampainya saya di rumah ini agak terlewat.. maklumlah memandu sendiri tanpa panduan GPS yg betul.. huu.. sayang seribu kali sayang kerana tidak dapat memulakan majlis dengan kehadiran diri sendiri.. tidak apalah, mungkin bukan rezeki kali ini. selangkahnya kaki di dalam rumah, ada deru tangisan bayi.. ada kanak2 yg berjalan membawa tubuh mereka yg comel ke sana sini.. tersenyum sambil menghampiri kami tanda menyambut ketibaan kami.. beberapa gadis lalu di depan kami dengan perut yg sarat berisi.. saya tersenyum.. owh, beruntungnya kamu.. beruntungnya kerana dapat menikmati saat2 menjadi seorang ibu.. maka saya cemburu.. saya juga mahu merasai ada janin yg hidup di dalam rahim saya.. meniti saat2 bergelar umi adalah saat yang setiap wanita inginkan.. kamu bertuah tuhan beri kamu rezeki yg tak ternilai harganya.. 
mata ini terus tersenyum.. sesenyumnya saya seperti yang diluahkan di bibir ini. hati saya juga tersenyum. semoga dengan senyuman dan kehadiran kami dapat melegakan gundah di hati kalian.. masih banyak yang kami tidak terokai.. mungkin kerana kesuntukan masa atau juga kerana batas-batas yang menghalang.. tetapi, jauh di sudut sanubari kami, kami faham kesengsaraan yang kamu semua rasai. disisih, dihina masyarakat. kami bukan siapa2 untuk menyisih kamu dan kamu juga bukan siapa2 untuk terus menanggung perit ini.. kamu juga manusia biasa, manusia yg juga punya khilaf dan melakukan kesilapan. buruknya manusia bukan diukur dengan kesilapan2 yg dia lakukan, tetapi sejauh mana dia mahu terus melakukan kesilapan itu. ingat, Allah sentiasa menerima taubat hamba2nya.. kamu semua sudah di lorong yg benar. mahu kembali ke jalan yg lurus adalah pilihan terbaik kamu. teruskan kehidupan kamu. sekali kamu sesat tak bermakna kamu akan sesat untuk selamanya.. saya doakan kamu dan zuriat yang bakal kamu lahirkan nanti.. semoga mereka menjadi pewaris agama bangsa dan negara yang berjaya disisi Allah s.w.t InsyaAllah.. 
we humans have the same appearance, but the inside are different. still, that doesn't mean we cannot change!
our first project is CREATIVE WORKSHOP. targetted group is pupils since there is a school holiday!.. to mother2 yg xtau nk watpe tok anak2 tu, lets us entertain your children.. they will hv some experience, excitements n happy time!
next coming up is baking course!. this is my fav!. im one of the tenaga pengajar taw!.haha.. muffin and cupcake deco will be under me.. last 2 years da penah buat baking course tp that time targetted group is students among university but then this time sgt menarik sbb mengajar kanak2!. cant emagine how creative n talented children in decorating their own cupcake!.. x sabar~
haaa,,.. this is our banner for Edu trip to China.. pic yg agk pecah2 sbb i got it from email. so pixel dy kecik je.. my first draft project under my scope: special task..still ade lg yg nk kna touch up sbb dis one blom finalise lg.. coming up is the name tag and the bag tag..huu,, cant wait juga!. lalalala~ 
muka2 busuk bile kna panggil row call.. cube carik mana saya?.mehhh!
5sn11.. girls trbaek~ baju pon ala2 skema gitu..tudung pon slekeh2..kan??.sy dr dulu lg mengekalkan kselekehan itu..hahaha..
parti buih versi mrsm.. we main buih dlm hutan simpan..we basah2 pastu baling2 tepung.. we buat bbq then flirt among each other..kan??.(erin, kau yg paling galak!.gagaga~)at the end of the party we stick to the partner we suppose to get.. n aku pnt menjengket tau wktu ni arep..dem kau sgt tinggi!.hahaha~
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p/s: nnt kau da kat sana, aku nk raya ngn sapa kat sini?.last year, kau yg temankn aku..n this year camana?.huhu.. n one more thing, dont forget that u owe me a muvi!. sila langsaikan sblm fly ye..lalalalalala~ =)
